If you are looking for something nice to do for the girl that you’re dating, or perhaps just crushing on then you might be drawing blanks. Whether you’re looking for something fun, flirty, creative or just down right passion felt and romantic, we have many ideas for you to use that she will be sure to love. Romance can lead to love, and according to the researchers with the Huffington Post, 91% of women and 86% of men state that they would not marry someone that had every quality they looked for in a person, if they were not in love with them. By doing these nice gestures for the one you love, you’re able to build the path to a strong, happy, healthy relationship for the future and who knows, maybe even love.

 

Most Loved Romantic Ideas

  • Get your dessert to go, instead of eating it at the restaurant, and snuggle up with it at home while watching a movie together.
  • Help with something on her to do list spontaneously. Sometimes life can be overwhelming but having a helping hand can be a simple, yet appreciated gesture. This will earn you many, many brownie points.
  • Breakfast in bed is a way to make anyone happy with their significant other. If you live together, or are staying the night with her then this will work out well. Purchase the ingredients for her favorite breakfast ahead of time, then set the alarm.
  • Give her a massage using warm oils, candle light and low playing music. This not only relaxes her, but might get everyone in the mood.
  • Write small little love notes and leave them in unexpected places throughout the home. Hiding in her purse, in her shoe, or even in the closet holding the towels. By placing them around the home, she will find them over time and have something to look forward too for more than just a day.
  • Massage, caress and rub her feet even just a little. This not only shows that you’re a man that is not afraid to take on a little hard work, but it feels so nice. After a long day at the office, this might be the only thing she looks forward too at the end of the day.
  • Draw her a bath with essential oils, bubbles and candles. Ask her if she would like a book, music or other option while she is sitting in there. You can also sit with her and keep her company.
  • Give her some lingerie to make her feel sexy. Choosing her own to surprise you is one thing, but when you purchase it for her, she can feel even sexier knowing this is something you want to see her in.
  • Candlelit dinner at home can provide the mood and backdrop that you want for a relationship. Without the home feeling, the dinner can be romantic, but loud and it might not be as sexy as you’d like it to be.
  • Take a quick surprise trip to wherever she has wanted to go. Whether it is for a night or the weekend, doing something spontaneous can be fun and exciting for the both of you.
  • Give her a dozen roses, 11 of them red and one of them white. You want to show her how different she is from the rest of the girls out there. That one white rose represents her.
  • Give the gift of a personalized photo book with pictures of the two of you together. You can add personalized touches throughout the book such as stickers and notes.
  • Write a book of the many things you love about them. This can even be done online and personalized to your liking. You make up the things within it, and then gift it so they can see the things you love the most about them.
  • Provide them with a secretly desired gift that they did not ask for. When you notice them checking it out, go back later and purchase it for them. Wrap it up and give it as a gift.
  • Go on a wine tour together. This is not only a fun thing to do but one that means you can drink all that you want, get silly together and relax while having a good time.
  • Play the question game. This is a game where you ask each other questions and give answers. You can learn a lot about someone when you play this game together. Add some fruity alcoholic drinks, and it can become a whole lot easier.
  • Make a home video for them while they are away. You can show them things you remember, tell them how much you care about them and record every second of you missing them.
  • Do a slideshow with music that they can watch on the television or on their computer. Scan pictures of you both together, and add cute little sayings, poems or ways you feel. Don’t forget the background music.
  • Dance together slowly in a lightly lit room with or without music. Just swaying to the sound of your hearts can be a romantic moment that you share together.
  • Burn a CD with love songs for her. While this might seem like a cheesy thing to do, it is also a classic. If she loves music as much as you do, this is a romantic thing to make and give her. Remember to add the date to the outside, and that the songs remind you of her.
  • Take a walk through the sand on the beach when you’re together. This is one of the most romantic ways to spend time together. You can actually do this during your spontaneous trip that you take.
  • Pull her outside on a warm rainy day and kiss in the middle of the rain. This is usually just seen in the movies, and girls want their relationships to be like that. Make it happen for her.
  • Put on the coffee and make delicious warm treats for you both to enjoy inside the home. This is ideal to do after she gets out of work, and when she just wants to wind down. Draw a bath, give her warm treats and just talk about the day.
  • Pretend you’re going out on your first date again, even if it is not the first. Dress up in a suit and tie, and bring her somewhere tacky, but fun. You want to bring flowers to the door too, so when she answers, she is surprised.
  • Create a memory box with a lot of little mementos and things that they like inside it. This can be a box that you decorate the outside of, and then fill the inside with small treasures.
  • Try role playing in the bed room, this is different and spicy and she just might like it. Just don’t go to overboard and scare her with the things you want to try. Start with a book of positions.
  • Declare your love for her publicly. This can be by putting your love for her up during a ball game, just grabbing her in the middle of the sidewalk or kissing her hair or hand while waiting in line.
  • Give her a small item of yours to wear around. Tell her it is for her to wear and think of you throughout the day with.
  • Put a new piece of jewelry in her jewelry box but do not tell her about it. Wait until she notices it on her own.
  • Place a single red rose under the windshield wiper of her car. This shows that you were thinking of her, and it is a great surprise.

For those of you that actually follow through with some of these fantastic ideas, I would love to hear your feedback in the comments section. So, what are you waiting for? Go out there and try a few.