Author: Mike Kal

10 Things You Can do to Build Your Confidence

You will often hear women say the most attractive thing about a man is confidence.  A less attractive man who knows who he is and has his life together is far more desirable than someone trying to fake it.  Confidence is something that can be elusive but there are a few things you can do to give yourself a boost.  This is my favorite piece of advice ever – “Fake it till you make it.”  Fake the confidence so that the success you have builds real confidence. Be disciplined – Do something that requires you to challenge yourself on...

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How to Convince a Girl You Like Her For More Than Just Looks

  Let’s say you’ve been working the same lame job as an insurance underwriter for the past 10 years, for a company that doesn’t appreciate your hard work and rarely gives you even the slightest raise. The new boss is a jerk. Your new cubicle neighbor smells like B.O. And you’re fed up of doing the same thing over and over again. You decide you’ve had enough and scour the Internet for new jobs and send in some resumes. You’re going to quit the current gig as soon as you find something. After a day of searching, the phone...

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The 12 Biggest Turn Offs for Women

Women may seem like hard people to figure out, especially if you’re a man wondering what you should and should not do around her. While some women will forgive and forget easily when you slip up, some women might take these slips ups as turn offs and it might just not work out the best that you wanted it too. With a simple idea of what turns ladies off, you can prepare yourself for what is to come in the near future. No one said that picking up women and actually having them like you was an easy thing...

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Getting Her Phone Number

There’s a classic scene in the movie “A Night at the Roxbury” that sticks in my mind.  It speaks perfectly to the perception of phone numbers as the ultimate reward for a well-played interaction.  The two lovable losers, Steve and Doug Butabi, somehow manage to go home with two hot girls for one-night stands.  In the morning after a night of passion, each guy asks his girl if he can call her.  Cut to shots of each guy running out of the house excitedly screaming, “I got her number!”  It’s a nice satire (and like the best satires only...

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How to Build Inner Confidence and Why it’s So Damn Attractive to Women

  Before I begin this lesson, I want to explain the difference between “inner” and “outer” game. It seems that most men focus more on outer game because they feel the only way to attract women is to look good and be “smooth”. But the truth is – if you don’t first address your inner game, you won’t look good or approach women smoothly. Inner game is all about howyou think about yourself (confidence, self-esteem), the world and women. Outer is all about your physical approach to women, your looks, etc. It’s all a domino effect. If you are...

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